I read something earlier today about the boundaries between platonic and romantic love. The blurriness that is often not acknowledged on either side. That friend that you never hit on but loved to spar with. It took me such a long time to realise the love I have for my best friend, such an odd blurriness. He is gay, I am bisexual and there is no sexuality to our love. I think he almost loves me only for that, that I never fell in love with him like so many other of his girlfriends have. For me, he was always just him. If I think back to our early days of friendship, then.. then what, then I see a guy, a young man. Brave and loud and full of self hatred like all younguns and shy and intimidated and brave again.
He calls me a fake lesbian fondly. It both irritates and endears me and encourages me to lick some pussy. What a fucker. Nothing like those who are close to you to put that knife to your ribs and gently twist to scrape a little skin on the way.
And now? now he is my greatest confidant. We trust each other with secrets and truths with a few lies chucked in for decoration. Testing them out before we admit the real thing to ourselves.
Sometimes I think how sad it is, that we keep friends at an arms length and put romance in as the quarterback, as the president, as the whatever. Fuck that. Time has definitely reminded me that friends are forever and love is the wallflower that you take out for a turn on the dancefloor to return at the end of the song.